The poster reads:
“If you tell anyone, you’ll get in trouble.”
-Age 11. Next door neighbor’s grandson.
“Turn around & pull your pants down. I’ll make you.”
-Age 13. First “friend” at new school.
“We never hang out anymore! I miss you! What happened?!”
-Age 20. From “best friend” at age 13. She told the school we had sex & I was pregnant out of jealousy. High school was living hell.
“But I love you.”
-Age 16-20. On-again, off-again “boyfriend”. It was just for the sex.
“Keep screaming. Nobody’s going to come save you.”
-Age 17. Rapist #1, at the bar where I worked.
“So are we gonna have sex or not?”
-Age 18. Ex-boyfriend, rapist #2, in my 1st year dorm room under pretense of “reconciliation”.
“She was a fucking crazy bitch.”
-Age 18. Ex-boyfriend’s best friend after a confrontation. 
“That was good. You love it when I choke you like that.”
-Age 19. Abusive ex-boyfriend, the 1st time we “had sex”. It was rape.
“Sex can look like love if you don’t know what love looks like.” - Rebecca Walker, author
NOW I DO.



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Photographed in Lewisburg, PA on November 12th.
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The poster reads:

“If you tell anyone, you’ll get in trouble.”

-Age 11. Next door neighbor’s grandson.

“Turn around & pull your pants down. I’ll make you.”

-Age 13. First “friend” at new school.

“We never hang out anymore! I miss you! What happened?!”

-Age 20. From “best friend” at age 13. She told the school we had sex & I was pregnant out of jealousy. High school was living hell.

“But I love you.”

-Age 16-20. On-again, off-again “boyfriend”. It was just for the sex.

“Keep screaming. Nobody’s going to come save you.”

-Age 17. Rapist #1, at the bar where I worked.

“So are we gonna have sex or not?”

-Age 18. Ex-boyfriend, rapist #2, in my 1st year dorm room under pretense of “reconciliation”.

“She was a fucking crazy bitch.”

-Age 18. Ex-boyfriend’s best friend after a confrontation. 

“That was good. You love it when I choke you like that.”

-Age 19. Abusive ex-boyfriend, the 1st time we “had sex”. It was rape.

“Sex can look like love if you don’t know what love looks like.” - Rebecca Walker, author

NOW I DO.

Photographed in Lewisburg, PA on November 12th.

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still looking for submissions for national magazine feature

Hi everyone! In case you missed it, we are looking for people who have been photographed by Project Unbreakable to have their photos published in a national magazine in early June. Right now, we are aiming for those whose attackers were convicted (simply for legal reasons), but we also may be able to include you if your attacker has died or you did not show your face. If you are interested & comfortable with your photo being published, please contact us at projectunbreakable@gmail.com with a link to your photo and please let us know whether the attacker was convicted, or has died - we will be able to tell if it’s one where your face is not showing, of course :). We will also answer any questions you may have and will connect you with the editor of the magazine as well.

Thanks!

Grace

The poster reads:
“I did not take advantage of you by trying to get you to do things you did not want to do.”
-Email from perpetrator

“Well what did you expect would happen?”
-Therapist



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Photographed in Lewisburg, PA on November 12th.
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The poster reads:

“I did not take advantage of you by trying to get you to do things you did not want to do.”
-Email from perpetrator
“Well what did you expect would happen?”
-Therapist

Photographed in Lewisburg, PA on November 12th.

Click here to learn more about Project Unbreakable. (trigger warning)

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Submissions from projectunbreakablesubmissions@gmail.com.

The poster reads:
Too drunk to say no does NOT mean yes!
That does not mean I was asking for it.
I am not a slut.
I AM a survivor.



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Photographed in Lewisburg, PA on November 12th.
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The poster reads:

Too drunk to say no does NOT mean yes!
That does not mean I was asking for it.
I am not a slut.
I AM a survivor.

Photographed in Lewisburg, PA on November 12th.

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The poster reads:
“See, I told you I would help you.”
-what he whispered to me before I passed out from the drug he’d slipped me.



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The poster reads:

“See, I told you I would help you.”
-what he whispered to me before I passed out from the drug he’d slipped me.

Photographed in Lewisburg, PA on November 12th.

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contest winners!

Congrats to the winners of yesterday’s contest!! stephcrawf on Instagram and @akirataylor22 on Twitter were chosen through a random name generator; I will be reaching out to you guys shortly to ask for your addresses to send you 2 bracelets and 2 stickers. Thanks again for participating, and thank you to everyone who watched the show/shared the news/was involved in the excitement. Have a good rest of your week!

- Grace

Submissions from projectunbreakablesubmissions@gmail.com.

If you watch tonight’s SVU episode, be sure to take a picture of the scene where Project Unbreakable is referenced and use the Instagram/Tumblr hashtag #projectunbreakable or our Twitter handle @ProjUnbreakable to tag us! We will randomly choose two people to win two bracelets and two stickers each. Just make sure your accounts aren’t private! :) The episode airs at 9pm EST/8pm CST on NBC.

If you watch tonight’s SVU episode, be sure to take a picture of the scene where Project Unbreakable is referenced and use the Instagram/Tumblr hashtag #projectunbreakable or our Twitter handle @ProjUnbreakable to tag us! We will randomly choose two people to win two bracelets and two stickers each. Just make sure your accounts aren’t private! :) The episode airs at 9pm EST/8pm CST on NBC.

The poster reads:
“You’re the bad child, not me.” -him
“Remember, you started this.” -him

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The poster reads:

“You’re the bad child, not me.” -him
“Remember, you started this.” -him

Photographed in Lewisburg, PA on November 12th.

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Project Unbreakable is referenced on this week’s SVU episode! Click through for the full preview.

Project Unbreakable is referenced on this week’s SVU episode! Click through for the full preview.

Submissions from projectunbreakablesubmissions@gmail.com.

graceeileen:

projectunbreakable:

Project Unbreakable is excited to announce that we are partnering with several organizations for a special event in June! Laura van Dernoot Lipsky, founder of the Trauma Stewardship Institute and author of Trauma Stewardship, will host a day long event in New York City on June 5th, 2013. Laura, a longtime trauma worker, uses a mix of personal insight, research, personal stories, and countless New Yorker cartoons to examine the ways working & witnessing trauma can affect us.
Instead of the usual rate of $90, we are offering a partner rate of $60 from now until the date of the event. To sign up, please contact us at projectunbreakable@gmail.com. This day is open to anyone who bears witness - social workers, foster parents, nurses, feminist advocates, environmentalists, domestic violence/child abuse shelter volunteers, firefighters, etc. (Or anyone planning on going into any of these fields.)
We at Project Unbreakable are extremely passionate about Laura’s work; in order to take care of others, we need to learn how to take care of ourselves first.
(Please consider reblogging/sharing/Facebooking/tweeting/etc!)

This is important.

just another heads up! june 5 will be here before we know it. the rest of the project unbreakable team & i are so excited for this event.

graceeileen:

projectunbreakable:

Project Unbreakable is excited to announce that we are partnering with several organizations for a special event in June! Laura van Dernoot Lipsky, founder of the Trauma Stewardship Institute and author of Trauma Stewardship, will host a day long event in New York City on June 5th, 2013. Laura, a longtime trauma worker, uses a mix of personal insight, research, personal stories, and countless New Yorker cartoons to examine the ways working & witnessing trauma can affect us.

Instead of the usual rate of $90, we are offering a partner rate of $60 from now until the date of the event. To sign up, please contact us at projectunbreakable@gmail.com. This day is open to anyone who bears witness - social workers, foster parents, nurses, feminist advocates, environmentalists, domestic violence/child abuse shelter volunteers, firefighters, etc. (Or anyone planning on going into any of these fields.)

We at Project Unbreakable are extremely passionate about Laura’s work; in order to take care of others, we need to learn how to take care of ourselves first.

(Please consider reblogging/sharing/Facebooking/tweeting/etc!)

This is important.

just another heads up! june 5 will be here before we know it. the rest of the project unbreakable team & i are so excited for this event.

Submissions from projectunbreakablesubmissions@gmail.com.

The poster reads:
He said it was my duty, as a “good Christian wife”…
…whether I liked it or not.


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Photographed in Lewisburg, PA on November 12th.
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The poster reads:

He said it was my duty, as a “good Christian wife”…
…whether I liked it or not.

Photographed in Lewisburg, PA on November 12th.

Click here to learn more about Project Unbreakable. (trigger warning)

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