I was really drunk in a party at work. This guy was a friend of my co-workers, and he insisted a lot to make out. I said “no” a thousand times. I was 18. I thought it was enough. He forced me and eventually I let it go, just because I was too tired. At some point, I’ve got so sick of it I fled the party, wich was near a dangerous avenue. I didn’t care, I wanted to get rid of him. My co-workers sent him to “take care” of me, cause the avenue was so dangerous. He kept pushing me against walls in the street, making me grab his penis and stuff like that. Eventually, I was able to walk to the avenue, where there were people. I screamed a lot. He got sick of me and called a friend to pick me up.
The next day, my co-workers made fun of me. They said no one does things they don’t want to, and being drunk was a lame excuse. I went upstairs and later the guy showed up. I told him he was wrong to make me do those things, and that I despised him. He said he didn’t regret it, he did nothing wrong. And that if it wasn’t for him, I would have been robbed. I’d rather be robbed a thousand times than suffer that stuff again. I was so scared and weak. He could’ve done much worse, if I wasn’t cappable of going to the avenue. I can’t have a normal relationship since then. It was 2007. I don’t trust people. And I’ve spent years thinking it was my fault.

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  13. catacombkitten said: I’m glad you recognize that you were physically, emotionally, and sexually intruded upon, OP, but that was absolutely not your fault. Those “friends” and coworkers should have recognized that asshole’s actions as abusive instead of blaming you.
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  20. spbell said: It wasn’t her fault, it was that asshole’s.
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